|Just like old times, but it's not 5:00, it's 3:33|
|Boo, Vicky, Dae, Ko-Zo, Mona|
|The amazing Pilou|
I take my responsability as a way to live showing respect and willing.
Real power comes when you don't even need it..
When all you need is understad, respect and protect your loved ones without expecting anything in exchange.
A mediocre Master tells,
a good Master teaches,
an excellent Master explains,
but a True Master inspires
Handsome, charming, intelligent but most of all humble boy with a devotion for being dominated シ Languages: German and EnglishContact Matty! Don't wait, do it now!
1) Verbal Assignment - What is it that YOU need? D/s relationships aren't just about what the sub can do for the dom, but also what the dom can do for the sub. I'm writing things that I need from you to take steps in this relationship, but what do you need from ME? What are things you need to know? What is something that you would need for me to do? Any good relationship is a two-way street, so I want you to think critically of what you'd need to see from me to move forward with this. This doesn't need to be answered today, or even at all, but you do need to think about it. If you ever think of something, do not hesitate to tell me.When he showed me this, two thoughts hit me. The first was, "Thank you! I'm not uber weird! Somebody else is approaching D/s in the same way I do". Sometimes it seems like subs either think that Dommes/Doms are mind readers, or instinctively know what a sub needs and thats what makes them Ds. Or they feel that a sub shouldn't actually have any needs.
2) Written Assignment - What are you looking for? For this assignment, I want you to tell me what it is you're looking for in a relationship. What kind of dynamic do you looking for? How do you want to behave for your dominant, ideally? What do you need from your dominant? What are your long and short term goals in such a relationship? Just describe to me your absolute ideal D/S situation. If we get into a permanent relationship, what would you ultimately want out it? What would want out of me? What would you want out of yourself? Take your time in writing this. There is no hurry. I'd rather wait for it to be complete than in my hands immediately.
3) Extra bits That should be enough to keep you busy for a bit, yeah? I'm glad I met you, sweetheart. I don't want you to worry about trying to please me through this whole process; I want you to concentrate on honest compatibility. If an assignment feels boring or unnecessary, tell me. If anything I do feels pushy or uncomfortable, tell me. I do not in any way want you to mold yourself for me, at this point. If something isn't perfect, do not change yourself for me; tell me what the conflict is, and then we can discuss the best way of approaching it together. Take care, dear. We'll talk soon.
The number one job of the dominant is to continually seduce consent
from the bottom. -- Joseph Bean
The behaviors of bottoms and submissives are similar, and in many cases overlap. For this reason, the terms are used interchangeably in some discussions, although there are differences between the two. Behaviors of submissives and bottoms often overlap, with the bottom also being submissive, but this is not always the case. Someone who is "topping" may be doing so at the request, or even the direction, of the bottom partner(s). In such a case, the dominant's function would reside with the bottom(s). Tops who act within this kind of relationship dynamic are sometimes called a service tops. A bottom who has dominance over the activities or the relationship is said to be topping from the bottom, even though they are really expressing dominance from the bottom.
-- Instant message logging enabled --I have studied this in depth, but as yet I can't fathom why this technique doesn't seem to be having an effect on me... or indeed where the technique actually is. Come to think of it, I don't think he was wearing his belt buckle.
[09:17:15] Sir D####: hello
[09:17:45] Vinny Caramel: Hello dear
[09:18:00] Sir D####: how you
[09:18:11] Vinny Caramel: Fine
[09:18:23] Sir D####: are you a slave
[09:19:01] Vinny Caramel: You are very perceptive. What gave me away?
[09:19:40] Sir D####: you just look like the slave type
[09:20:29] Sir D####: step over here so we can talk
[09:20:45] Vinny Caramel: Oh, well you have certainly mastered your environment. You must be a top hunter of slaves.
[09:21:35] Sir D####: i just know what to look for
[09:22:06] Vinny Caramel: Oh! BlacOpal! I have that suit. It looks better on me.
[09:22:56] Vinny Caramel: You AVI doesn't seem to be working.
[09:23:08] Vinny Caramel: The AO is off
[09:23:10] Sir D####: come to me
[09:23:57] Vinny Caramel: What all the way out there? But the real Doms stand right at the centre, over here where I am.
[09:24:38] Sir D####: read this
[09:25:09] Vinny Caramel: Thanks, I'll take a look at it later.
[09:25:22] Sir D####: ok
[09:26:08] Vinny Caramel: Is it all your own work or is a standard copy/pasta sort of set of rules?
[09:26:29] Sir D####: my work
[09:29:37] Vinny Caramel: It says in your profile that you are Master. What marks you out as a master rather than a regular Dom?
[09:30:35] Vinny Caramel: It's ok, take your time.
[09:30:35] Sir D####: join me and find out
[09:32:07] Vinny Caramel: Maybe, but right now, I'm not really feeling it, dominated or anything.
[09:34:50] Vinny Caramel: Now your rules (#11) say, "We love all of you equally." -- Right now I'[m not feeling the love. When does that part happen?
[09:35:47] Vinny Caramel: And #12 says I must start as a slave. Don't you think I'm a bit too 'top draw' to just be a slave?
[09:40:12] Sir D####: yes
[09:45:07] Vinny Caramel: Oh! a friendship request! But can't you do something to impress me? Take control of the situation? Dominate the conversation maybe?
[09:46:23] Sir D####: i order you to friend me now
[09:46:42] Sir D####: and to come to me that is an order
[09:49:46] Vinny Caramel: This is how a Master does it is it?
[09:50:00] Vinny Caramel: I'm learning a lot already! :)
[09:50:41] Sir D####: i guess you dont want this so i guess i leave you alone
[09:50:43] Vinny Caramel: I think I pressed the wrong button. Send it again.
[09:51:28] Vinny Caramel: Don't go. I'd love to know the difference between a Master and a regular Dom.
Binding Contract for ### (keep one copy for future reference)
1. You will treat ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### ) with respect in order to get respect. When you see me or the mistresses you must kneel.
2. You will treat the other pets in the group with respect and they will show you respect.
3. You must never take the collar off unless you have my permission.
4. You never change or take your shape off with out permission from ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### ).
5. You are not allowed to add anyone to your collar. ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### )are the only ones who can do that.
6. You will wear whatever ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### ) have you to wear . You have no say so over your clothes. Only ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### ) do.
7. You have to obey ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### ) at all times. You must listen to all orders and commands from ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### ). You do what ( Sir D### , Lady C### , and mistress h### )say, when we say , how we tell you, wherever we tell you to do it at.
8.If you are in RLV with your master you must ask permission to do whatever you need to do ex. inventory, maps , attachments, cloths, talk sit/stand. we will have these locked.
9. You cant be in RLV with anyone else as long as you are owned, protected and collared by us.
10. The mistresses are to be obeyed like the master.
11. Jealousy is not allowed, We love all of you equally. There will be no fighting or arguing amongst the group even among the mistresses and master. we have final say in these issues. When we are dealing with another pet, you will sit quietly and wait till you are spoken to
12 all must start as a slave. If you wish to move up to a new level in the group you will have to work and earn it.
13. All members will include this group in their picks.
14 You can expect to experience loss of freedom as you will not be permitted to wander outside of the castle unaccompanied until you have been transformed into a slave we can be proud of.
15. We will train your mind into accepting that you are the best slave and your only happiness is ensuring our satisfaction with you.
16. Master and Madame retain their right to rent you out for a definite period of time.
17. must inform master ,and mistresses of being afk ,brbs ect.....
18.no one is not allowed to come in the bedroom unless (master d###,madame c###,or mistress h###) brings you invite you to the bedroom
Do all of the above and you will grow in the group.
If you can not follow these rules, you do not belong here.
We expect you to give us your all, heart , body,shape,mind, and soul.
Rules and tasks for slavesOn the face of it, who would not yield? And yet...
you will be trained on all aspects of submission
: you will need to be able to dance , lapdance, oral, anal and vanilla sex, girl on girl, boy on boy, 3some etc
: you will need to be prepared to sit and wait
: to be tied up and tortured
: to be left alone for long periods
: you will need to be able to work your own collar , to be able to put yourself in the correct pose at the right time
: to do chores
: to know how to enter and leave a room
: to me a maid
: to serve food and drink
: to address other dominants
: to serve other dominants sexually
|The good, the bad and the ugly.|
"im not a dom or a sub still undecided i think i will try both any volonteers? lol
oh n Im a dude other dude may not apply...UPDATE! THE SUB THING IS NOT 4 ME...I AM DOM"
|"I'm from Sydney!"|
In the absence of any other information,
I formed my own opinions about S###.
[06:45:43] S###: hi
[06:46:01] Vinny Caramel: Hello
[06:46:26] S###: umm would you like to take me as your slave
[06:46:48] Vinny Caramel: Why would I want to do that?
[06:47:10] S###: well iam a sub..and you make my knees go week for you
[06:48:02] Vinny Caramel: Ok, so now I know you are a sub. Anything else I should know before I leap into a decision?
[06:48:22] S###: lol
[06:48:30] S###: i thin thats it
[06:49:35] Vinny Caramel: Thats it? You don't want to give me anything to make me believe you are anything other than a complete moron?
[06:50:01] S###: wel iam from Sydney
[06:50:26] S###: and i wanted to be dominated by a woman all my life
[06:50:37] S###: so i thought SL would be the place
[06:51:22] Vinny Caramel: This may come as a shock, but there is a little more to it than that.
To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive, is actually of a very specific rather than a general nature; its source lies in the specialized knowledge systems that most INTJs start building at an early age. When it comes to their own areas of expertise -- and INTJs can have several -- they will be able to tell you almost immediately whether or not they can help you, and if so, how. INTJs know what they know, and perhaps still more importantly, they know what they don't know.